r/AskMen Nov 30 '22

What do you actually think of high heels?

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u/tralfaz66 Oldermensch Nov 30 '22

on the right pair of legs, they look mighty 'nice'

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u/rvrndgonzo Nov 30 '22 edited Dec 01 '22

It’s not just the legs for me. It’s do they go with the entire look AND does she know how to walk in them.

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u/TCaldicoat Nov 30 '22

Genuine question, what do you find attractive about a ladies legs?

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u/irongoatmts66 Nov 30 '22

We don’t know we just do

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u/ZayNine Nov 30 '22

Nice leg shape/muscular/defined legs just look nice. Heels automatically put them in a position that makes them look more defined.

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u/JPBooBoo Dec 01 '22

Uniform skin tone of legs as well

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u/ZayNine Dec 01 '22

Very wrong my friend, if they’re a good shape I’m attracted regardless of marks, scars, hyperpigmentation, etc. Please send me the ones you don’t want 🤝🏽

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u/AntiSosh333 Dec 01 '22

That's a potential messy situation right there. Gonna be hard to ship and would probably be considered illegal.

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u/CrisisDancing Dec 01 '22

This has me puzzled. Uniform skin tone? Examples please.

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u/blopp_boop Dec 01 '22

I guess he’s talking about strawberry legs or hyperpigmentation, darker knees etc

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '22

This is an interesting question, I have no idea but I think it might be about where the legs go and the tension legs build in the mind.

So, short dress + long legs leads to ____. I believe i’s a sexual thing.

I know it may sounds odd when it’s explained with thought/detailed description but we’ve spoken about it in the friend group and tried to figure it out haha.

I guess a question too could be, what do women do to make their legs ‘attractive’? There must be something that is done.

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u/polkemans Dec 01 '22

"Why is the sky blue? Why are boobs good?"

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u/agiro1086 Sup Bud? Dec 01 '22

They don't look like two bendy straws holding up a potato

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u/Coidzor A Lemur Called Simon Nov 30 '22

Smooth, healthy skin. Good shape. The proportion of the length of her legs to her total body length.

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u/fish993 Dec 01 '22

Can attractiveness really be explained like that? Why is a nice ass or pair of breasts attractive? It's all kind of subconscious

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u/Polite_cat1 Dec 01 '22 edited Dec 01 '22

If they’re muscular but still look soft. If she has thick calves and thighs. They just need to have that curvy look to them. Also smooth healthy looking skin with minimal to no blemishes makes legs look SO much nicer.

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u/Rossifan1782 Dec 01 '22

Imagine silk sliding, warm soft gentle graceful curves to navigate teasing and tempting towards nirvana...

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u/Outnabout3535325 Nov 30 '22

they rise up to the creamy center.

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u/DrNoResponse Dec 01 '22

What’s wrong with the left pair of legs?

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u/LingLingMang Nov 30 '22

Answer of the gear right here!

If she’s got the right legs for them, damn!
If she doesn’t… yikes

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u/365ChristmasHoe Nov 30 '22

Genuine question what does someone who doesn't have the legs for heels look like? I've never heard this before

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u/LingLingMang Nov 30 '22

Look up ZZ TOP - Legs And you’ll see what the right legs look like lol

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u/dgvelling Nov 30 '22

That’s mainly due to it being shot from behind so the features that heels being out aren’t noticeable like elongation of the leg.

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u/capital_alex Nov 30 '22

if she likes them, why not? Though they are not very comfortable to wear

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u/Smart-Pie7115 Nov 30 '22

They’re also not good for your feet.

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u/Embarrassed-Tip-5781 Dec 01 '22

They are not good for your body, and cause compensatory actions in your gait and ankle, knees, hips, and low back joints.

Katie Bowman has written a lot of good information on it.

https://www.positivehealth.com/article/bodywork/your-body-is-being-shaped-by-your-shoes

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u/Boring-Run-2202 Dec 01 '22

I had an ex bf who always wanted me to wear these for whole days, I already have problems with my health and stuff, I didn't want to. He also never did anything in return lmao

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u/Y34rZer0 Nov 30 '22

Like a lot of womens fashion it seems very inconvenient and very painful.
I mean guys like them but to be honest they don’t seem important enough for the hassle.

Stockings seems like a better trade off, mach less likely to make you trip over and fall and the payoff is much bigger

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u/Ahielia Male Dec 01 '22

I'm a much bigger fan of heeled boots, up to 5cm or so. Much more practical, easier to walk in, looks better and more stable, and for some reason the clickety clack sound many of them make, makes me feel things.

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u/Y34rZer0 Dec 01 '22

Lol in high school they were called ‘fuck me boots’

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u/szczurman83 Nov 30 '22

They're uncomfortable and I can't walk in them. How do women manage to wear them?

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u/Good-mood-curiosity Dec 01 '22

Ankle strength and good posture my man! Plus nice thick bandaids on the heel/Achilles insertion point, big and pinky toes at the beginning of the night. Then alcohol, the occasional seat and a man to lend a supportive arm and voila! Some high heels with good arch support and ankle grip can actually be quite comfy until the balls of the feet get tired of carrying weight. Or just wear heeled boots--those heels are wider and with the proper ankle and arch support can be so so comfy. I have multiple pairs of 2in heel boots--comfiest shoes I own excluding sneakers.

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u/Yurt_Of_Carim Nov 30 '22

Sexy, but practice walking with them because 1 it looks More graceful and sexy and 2 you can get hurt if you fall or twist something.

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u/udxxr Male Nov 30 '22

In the right situations they can be fashionable and classy. I also enjoy the change in perspective, since it (usually) evens out our heights a little.

But generally they are a pain. Walking becomes slower. If we're dancing we have to practice. If they have to be worn all night they can be quite sore by the end of it.

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u/throwawaya00208356 Nov 30 '22

Love them. Unless she is uncomfortable and is going to complain the whole time. Then just wear flats.

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u/chillyfunnydaddy Nov 30 '22

Natural viagra

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u/FBIPartyBusNo3 Dec 01 '22

I’d rather swallow a pill than eat a shoe

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u/ForsakenRoom Nov 30 '22

Natural contraception on the wrong person though

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u/LukeyLeukocyte Dec 01 '22

If it is that bad, you were already uninterested with or without heels, no?

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u/Ahielia Male Dec 01 '22

If she's otherwise hot and if heels doesn't fit the outfit and she doesn't know how to walk in them, she's instantly unattractive to me.

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u/Beneficial-Problem55 Male Nov 30 '22

Look uncomfortable, but if you want to wear them for whatever reason, you do you.

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u/Habanerosauce3 Nov 30 '22

I'm a guy, I don't like them. I don't really like them on women either.

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u/Not_that_wire Dec 01 '22

I'm the same. I've been with a few shoe queens. I wasn't impressed. Made s big deal about shoes, closets and credit debt. For all the adorning of their feet, they weren't the best dancers, and didn't tend to age very fit - which makes sense if standing and walking is painful.

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u/chxnkybxtfxnky Just a random dude Nov 30 '22

Don't complain to me about your aching feet if you choose to wear them

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u/the-terrible-martian Dec 01 '22

Hahahaha my answer would’ve been a combination of the comments about how they’re hot and this kinda sentiment. I like them. A lot. However as someone with flat feet I know how awful the wrong shoe can feel. So I wouldn’t ever expect a girl to wear them.

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u/OrneryGiraffe Nov 30 '22

Honestly this. I think they look nice but I’d much rather you be comfortable. And please for the love of god dont wear them if you’re going to complain the whole night

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u/BarnOwl-9024 Nov 30 '22

Don’t like wild or extreme designs. But to wear them, much better (than average) posture and care need to be taken. And better posture makes a woman look fabulous!

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u/Woodit Nov 30 '22

I prefer the look of flats tbh

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u/JamJam120199 Nov 30 '22

Think they are stupid, terrible for the foots health, women typically take them off after short periods of wearing them etc.

I'd never tell a women what to dress but id rather my gf wear comfy Converse rather than Heels.

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u/Smart-Pie7115 Nov 30 '22

I buy my heels from SAS. They’re super comfy and if I’m late for an event, I can run in them. Not the most stylish, though.

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u/Gubbergub Nov 30 '22

they look uncomfortable and impractical. if you're carrying your shoes at the end of the night cause your feet hurt, it completely defeats the purpose of shoes. plus flats or sneakers look cooler.

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u/smackaroni-n-cheese Nov 30 '22

Eh. They can look nice, but I think women mostly just wear them for each other's benefit

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u/KlipschForte Dec 27 '22

Yup. Then men get the heat for it.

Research on women's shame shows that a lot of it comes from other women. Leave me out of it.

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u/Waltuh_Whyte Nov 30 '22

Overrated

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u/Rathwood Male Nov 30 '22

This.

They're a lazy shortcut for movies and TV to tell male audience members that they're supposed to find a female character sexy.

I dare every director in the world to make their characters sexy in Chucks or Doc Martens or something.

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u/ZealousidealLeg3692 Nov 30 '22

Sexy people are usually pretty sexy regardless of what they wear. No one gets to choose who they're attracted to but there's definitely people who just look good regardless of what they wear

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u/AlfrescoSituation Nov 30 '22

Idk man Doc Martens are pretty fucking sexy on a chick. Maybe it’s because I’m into the “confident, strong woman” thing 🤷‍♂️

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u/thefpspower Dec 01 '22

That makes no sense mate.

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u/No-Dents-Comfy Male Nov 30 '22

Starting with how the shoes I got for myself that are supposed to be comfortable, still hurt after a long walk, I don't get how anyone could willingly go through extra pain.

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u/UncleBeauRules Nov 30 '22

Really, REALLY depends on who's wearing them.

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u/Anynon1 Nov 30 '22

Personally they don’t really make much a difference to me. A sexy pair of leather boots though 🔥 my niche is more punk/metal so take that however you will

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u/DrJeuZz Nov 30 '22

Looks uncomfortable.

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u/FreshKittyPowPow Nov 30 '22

Depends on the rest of the fit.

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u/orngesodaaa Nov 30 '22

Now I’m curious because of the comments... What are the “wrong pair of legs?” That’s not something I’ve ever heard of before. They’re legs? How can legs be bad? I’ve never seen a woman wear heels and thought “oh her shoes don’t go with her legs.”

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u/Calijewles Nov 30 '22

Lol. Idk, but I'm curious too. Personally, I won't wear heels. I value my health & comfort over fashion...but really, men...what is the wrong type of legs for heels?

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u/jghmf XY chromosome havin mofo Dec 01 '22

They're so uncomfortable, but they do make my ass look gre...oh right, on women, I knew that.

They don't do much for me honestly. And because their only quasi-practical application (highlighting legs and ass) doesn't make a woman more attractive to me, I think they are absurd. Surprised I haven't seen more women get hurt in those things.

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u/inglouriouswoof Dec 01 '22

Meh. Wear them if it’s your thing. I’ll otherwise suggest comfier footwear.

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u/Mr_Yuker Dec 01 '22

Meh overrated... I like my women comfortable and relaxed... And well I've never heard someone refer to heels as comfortable

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u/CreepyAssPenis Nov 30 '22

They make very convenient handles

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u/Juuuunkt Nov 30 '22

Nice username. Would that be a very creepy penis, or a creepy penis that often enters an ass, or a creepy penis that is somehow attached to or protruding from an ass? Just, for research purposes...

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u/Y34rZer0 Nov 30 '22

He could be a professional shoe polisher

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u/Juuuunkt Nov 30 '22

What does a shoe polisher have to do with creepyasspenis!? 🤔

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u/Y34rZer0 Nov 30 '22

Oh, my bad. I didn’t realise that username was creepier than their comment.
Also I think that if it was an ass penis that was creepy then it would be hyphenated, ie a Creepy Ass-Penis.

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u/Juuuunkt Nov 30 '22

Things like this simultaneously drive me insane, and are highly amusing. Petsmart. Is it Pets Mart, or Pet Smart? I know it's both, but I MUST know which one. Lol.

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u/Y34rZer0 Nov 30 '22

I think that is by design, and why it’s a good name. It both implies that I am smart because I’m choosing to shop there and also that they are a store that is very smart in its knowledge about pets.

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u/AynFuuser Nov 30 '22

1000% unnecessary and a huge cause of back issues. If they empower you, go for it but please remember that your body is not thanking you for it ladies. I never understood the appeal of them, speaking from the male perspective.

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u/bl21bro Dec 01 '22

They look uncomfortable and are therefore a turn off

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u/tarheel_204 Nov 30 '22

Big fan if it’s for a formal occasion

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u/Hierophant-74 Nov 30 '22

I think they look great!

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u/urine-monkey Nov 30 '22

I'm laughing at some of these comments about men being put off by a woman whose taller than them. I once dated a girl who was 6'4 in 6 inch stilettos and I thought she looked gorgeous. Even bought her a pair.

Granted, I'm 6'2. Maybe I wouldn't feel the same if I were under 6 feet.

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u/Guanajuato_Reich Nov 30 '22

I'm 5'7 and I still think they look beautiful even if I feel as if I'm talking to God.

However, if they look uncomfortable then I don't like it.

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u/ChemDude999 Nov 30 '22

Thin ones are pretty damn sexy! The thick pumps, not so much imo. But it all depends on the woman tbh. I know some women who make vans look good! 😂

But I'll tell you what's even better looking on a girl. Cowboy boots! Not all women can rock them, but if you can then you know what I'm saying. It might just be the fact I'm from Texas 😂

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u/Temporary-Product928 Nov 30 '22

They look very uncomfortable.

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u/Naughtyexperiences Nov 30 '22

Take them or leave them. Sure they are nice. But so are shoes. Couldn't really care at all about them.

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u/ScottdaDM Dec 01 '22

High heels make a woman arch her back. The arched back is a kind of universal signal in mammals of sexual availability.

But the way, men invented high heels for use in calvary. Men originally wore high heels, exclusively. Prostitutes in Italy adopted the practice, as appearing masculine was the fad at the time. And women realized it was a way to get a man's attention. The rest is fashion history.

High heels literally make women look sexier, in a profound way. And women adopted them voluntarily.

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u/kaazgranaat2309 Nov 30 '22

I dont like the look tbh, never really done anything for me, like almost any other option looks better to me, but if it makes her happy and feel more sexy thats the most important thing to me.

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u/bigboatalpha Nov 30 '22

I think they can look great and for some women it’s a confidence boost which is all the better to see 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/cork007 Nov 30 '22

I think they are a hazard if you have a waterbed.

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u/odeacon Dec 01 '22

So fucking stupid. I want a girl that takes me by the hand and skips down the hall with me, our fingers linked together as we laugh. Not a “ wait can you walk a third of your normal pace, I’m wearing the dumbfuck shoes and I can’t keep up”. Seriously the way certain women’s wardrobes remove the possibilities of fun is genuinely aggravating. I remember when my crush and I were playing with the therapy dogs at school and my women friend who was also there said “ no buddy I can’t let you lick me. It’ll ruin my makeup “……. Bro

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u/weavebot Nov 30 '22

Time and place appropriate, I love them but I need a lot of ankle support or I fall flat on my ass

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u/Taco__Bandito Nov 30 '22

Makes a woman’s ass protrude. I dig them on women.

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u/Believeitin Nov 30 '22

Women look good in them

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u/StreifenCarI Nov 30 '22

Hot as hell

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u/muy_carona 🥜 Nov 30 '22

Not a fan. Unless they’re Cowgirl boots

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u/realstareyes Nov 30 '22

They‘re unhealthy and uncomfortable.

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u/Swimming-Book-1296 Nov 30 '22

I like them, so long as the toe box isn't pointy. Pointy toe boxes look stupid.

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u/ayeiamthefantasyguy Nov 30 '22

To be honest I never saw the appeal but that's just me. I know others like them but to me they always seemed to be a needlessly uncomfortable addition part of an attire.

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u/Outnabout3535325 Nov 30 '22

i love em makes your ass look even better than it already does.

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u/Love-Is-Selfish Dec 01 '22

Feminine, can be hot. Good excuse to massage your lover’s feet.

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u/VanityInVacancy Dec 01 '22

Love this response

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u/deleted_account_1725 Nov 30 '22

I know I'm taller than you. No need to try to look taller.

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u/Tschudy Nov 30 '22

Not a fan

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u/AurulentAvenger Fella Nov 30 '22

I think they put a lot of pressure on the ankles.

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u/Welcome2B_Here Nov 30 '22

Like the look, but can't stand the loud clanging noise on hard floors, that's so fucking annoying.

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u/paerius Nov 30 '22

Dumbest shit ever. Expensive, impractical, and a liability. Go on a date and midway through, you start hearing about how her feet hurt. Yeah, cuz your feet are used to new balance sneakers... God forbid you twist your ankle or your heels break.

If you wanna wear em that's cool, but I'm not carrying your pair of emergency sandals because they don't fit in your clutch bag.

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u/Shawnmt31 Nov 30 '22

I don’t really think about them at all

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u/SWM50 Nov 30 '22

Can't get used to them, ankles are fu*ked (male)

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u/rocknack Nov 30 '22

They hurt to wear.

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u/Ilovepieisaiah Nov 30 '22

Painful I try a pair on never again

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u/oddball667 Male Nov 30 '22

Looks good, but not where my eyes are going to be

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u/RandomUser-_--__- Nov 30 '22

They sure are shoes

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u/TheBananaKing Nov 30 '22

Nice ass

:looks down:

Great now I have to do math

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u/Clell65619 Male Nov 30 '22

Personally, not a fan. They just look painful.

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u/RatherBSailin Nov 30 '22

Perhaps the dumbest invention of the fashionistas in modern history. If I were female I would never wear them... ever.

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u/Coconut_Salad Nov 30 '22

I don’t have an opinion either way

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u/KeyStoneLighter Nov 30 '22

They’re hard to walk in and hurt my fucking feet!

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u/Devil505actual Nov 30 '22

Not a fan at all. I always say, wear shoes that are comfortable and easy to walk in.

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u/tjarod11 Nov 30 '22

I don't actually think about high heels...

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u/JordanStPatrick Gay Male Nov 30 '22

Surprisingly easy to walk in if you know what you're doing. Standing for long periods is the actual hard part.

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u/izzygonecrazy Nov 30 '22

They look uncomfortable.

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u/drunk_in_denver Nov 30 '22

I don't like them at all. They make womens feet look weird and I prefer shorter women anyway. And before y'all get started with your shit talking I'm 6' 3".

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u/huuaaang Male Nov 30 '22

They just seem uncomfortable for no good reason.

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u/Then_Original_1269 Nov 30 '22

In a short skirt or dress they look nice.

But IMO if rather my date be comfortable in flats or shoes rather than high heels

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u/Burnt_Crunchy_Bits Nov 30 '22

Dangerous and impractical. I don't get them.

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u/NefariousScoundrel Male Nov 30 '22

Pretty indifferent lol. Never understood the “sexiness” surrounding them and if I was a woman there’s no way in hell you could get me to put a pair on

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '22

Step on me please. My good God them and sharp nails are the hotest thing to me. I don’t know why... I feel some type of way about them. I blame you all, I don’t know why... It’s hot. Like fuck me hot

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u/ChairmanMeow52 Male Nov 30 '22

I don’t understand the appeal of them. Just seem very impractical and would be uncomfortable to wear 🤷‍♂️

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u/SkullAngel001 Nov 30 '22

1-2 inch heels is fine but I'm not a fan of crazy styles or stiletto-high.

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u/j4kefr0mstat3farm Nov 30 '22

I don't understand how they became the default "sexy" look. I just don't get the appeal.

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u/Salty-Pack-4165 Nov 30 '22

I don't like them. I never learned how to walk in them. On some women they look hot but on others they are ridiculous. They are no different than many other kinds of clothing.

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u/TheCubanBaron Nov 30 '22

Personally I don't care about them.

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u/FunAd8 Nov 30 '22

I love heels! Super sexy. 👠

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u/10202632 Nov 30 '22

You can keep the lingerie. Just give me a great set of pins in heels

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u/EasySundayz Nov 30 '22

Seem fucking painful.

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u/Cheap_Ingenuity_9413 Nov 30 '22

I don´t like heels in general

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u/Kayman30 Nov 30 '22

Absolutely love them!

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u/BigBlueWookiee Nov 30 '22

Great handles.

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u/yoursISnowMINE Male Nov 30 '22

That i can never get them in my size. I'm 6'2", but i want to be taller dammit!

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u/pizza_goes_splat Nov 30 '22

Silly to be honest, most girls can't wear them correctly and I find short girls more attractive

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u/MedleyFinale Nov 30 '22

Probably the dumbest invention before the shake weight was invented.

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u/ZenBowling Nov 30 '22

I dont understand the visual appeal

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u/JonBoah Male Nov 30 '22

I think wedges look better than the rest

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u/BecauseWhyNotTakeTwo Dec 01 '22

They are bad for your feet. I would rather appreciate a woman with good feet than fancy shoes.

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u/jayval90 Dec 01 '22

I prefer women in flats. They seem pretty tryhard.

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u/BMoney8600 Male Dec 01 '22

I got no idea how women wear those things.

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u/GLR_appreciator Dec 01 '22

I'm neither for nor against them

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u/montanalombardy Dec 01 '22

They look nice but so can other shoes. Not crazy for them.

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u/Aspiring-Old-Guy Dec 01 '22

Impressive but unnecessary.

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u/Slow_Cat6602 Dec 01 '22

Completely pointless. If a girl has nice legs they look nice regardless of footwear, I’ve never seen heels make “bad” legs look better. I also don’t understand why most women want to feel petite so badly then wear something that adds height.

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u/KomradeElmo0 Dec 01 '22

Hate them. They look super painful for girls and...and...i'm short dammit.

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u/DetectiveDesperate70 Dec 01 '22

Classy high heels, sling backs are good. Hoochie mama heels, no. Not so much.

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u/LeverTech Dec 01 '22

If men were supposed to wear them, I’d be one of those girls that never does, doesn’t even own a pair.

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u/House_Strong13 Dec 01 '22

All I see is back pain.

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u/red_shrike Dec 01 '22

Either your legs are nice, or they're not. Don't use them to elongate them. We know.

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u/jefnva Dec 01 '22

I don’t like heels. They are honestly a turn off for me.

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u/Turbulent-Paramedic2 Dec 01 '22

Not a huge fan. I guess I could take them or leave them.

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u/AlkaliPineapple Dec 01 '22

It looks really uncomfortable

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u/aidank91 Dec 01 '22

I don't like them.

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u/theSilentNerd Dec 01 '22

Hate the noise, also seems uncomfortable.

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u/Waratah888 Dec 01 '22

Not a fan in general.

For an occasional 'look' sure, I'll watch and admire. But in general I'd rather she was natural and comfortable.

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u/LilCorbs Dec 01 '22

I straight up don't notice

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u/bbrasseaux76 Male Dec 01 '22

They look uncomfortable.

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u/brublanc Dec 01 '22

Completely pointless and clearly dangerous.

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u/shortman_9421 Dec 01 '22

They look like a pain in the ass to walk in

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u/stevetree123 Dec 01 '22

They look hot

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u/therealchucky81 Dec 01 '22

Major turn off for me Idk why but ya lol

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u/Fickle-Eggplant7013 Dec 01 '22

They look so insanely uncomfortable that they make me uncomfortable watching women wear them. Except for a special occasion I don't care for him

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u/ghostlysoul1911 Dec 01 '22

In high heels, pain is silent 😶🫥

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u/Bigstar976 Dec 01 '22

Very sexy. Bonus points if they stay on in bed.

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u/Iron_Baron Dec 01 '22

I dislike them. Their original practical functions have been obsolete for a century or three and they physically damage ligaments and such when worn over long periods of time.

I personally find impracticality unattractive, from their cost, to their durability, to their reduction in walking speed. I also prefer shorter women, so the height increase is irrelevant.

I understand some women wear them for their own enjoyment/aesthetic preferences, which I have no opinion on. I do wonder if they'd have those preferences without conditioning by society.

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u/8BitSk8r Male Dec 01 '22

I think it's fascinating how people can walk in them without dying.

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u/Nednerb5000 Dec 01 '22

You shouldn’t squeeze your feet into uncomfortable shoes that I often see girls tripping around in. Very silly I don’t get it. If a girl has a nice pair of white af1’s though she could like get it.

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u/Cgtree9000 Dec 01 '22

They are dumb, I just feel bad for anyone who wears them. Not many people walk in them gracefully.

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u/FullSpirit9610 Dec 01 '22

Don’t wear stuff that isn’t comfortable.

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u/Age-Zealousideal Dec 01 '22

High heels on a nice pair of legs look great. But, for some women I know, it wrecks your feet and causes long term pain. Quite frankly, I don’t know how women wear them.

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u/Next-Mode3183 Dec 01 '22

They look painful

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u/moonrider18 Dec 01 '22

I'm not a fan. I'm free-spirited and I want a free-spirited partner, and high heels are so restrictive.

I mean if the woman really likes them for whatever reason, that's her business. But if she wants my opinion, I'd rather date a girl in sneakers.

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u/umlaute Dec 01 '22

As a guy of average height, I don't understand them.

I've been rejected over high heels more than I can count. As in "I like wearing heels, so the guy had to be my height + my highest heels + some tall.
So limiting your dating pool over shoes seems super weird to me.

Secondly, I hear so many women complain about how they're uncomfortable if the discussion is about what women do to look attractive. And then have so many women refuse to say that they're in any way uncomfortable or a hindrance if men suggest just not wearing them.

For me personally....they're shoes. I really couldn't care less about them. But the obsession people have over them is weird to me.

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u/gemcogamer Dec 01 '22

They look nice depending on the style. Usually my first thought though is "her poor toes must be smooshed".

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u/lostnumber08 Dec 01 '22

Pointless.

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u/Kattekop_BE Male Dec 01 '22

overrated

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u/LogJamminWithTheBros Dec 01 '22

They look painful and I get scared people wearing them are going to fall and injure themselves.

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u/The_Spyre Dec 01 '22

They're very comfortable.

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u/[deleted] Dec 01 '22 edited Dec 01 '22

I bet 95% of the guys here who don't like heels don't like them because women say they want a guy to be taller even if she's wearing heels

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u/TheBeardyOnes Nov 30 '22

I've got the legs to make them work, but they're not my style.

Not really a fan of them on women either.

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u/No-Warning-1415 Nov 30 '22

Not a fan honestly. Not sure I understand how it makes anyone's life better wearing them. Keep in mind I'm a 40+ male and I dress for basically function only now....dressing for style kind of lost its appeal 20+ years ago.

My wife has worn high heels maybe 3x in the 20 years we've been together and I honestly can't recall any of those 3 days. I'm telling you...nothing sexier than your bride to be running around in the grass in bare feet with her wedding dress on...lol.

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u/gooddood56 Nov 30 '22

Would rather you wear sneakers and be comfortable. Bonus: some guys won't approach you if you're taller than they are.

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u/bootyhunter69420 Nov 30 '22

I think they are sexy

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u/JetBrink Nov 30 '22

I love them, they're so sexy

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u/Desperate-Peter-Pan Nov 30 '22

Don’t like them

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u/Jaysus1288 Nov 30 '22

My wife and I get dressed up a fair amount for different reasons. High heels always look nice. That being said they should match the outfit to some degree (colour contrasts, style, height, etc).

Similarly dress shoes for men.

Lastly if you do decide to wear high heels please wear them for the entire evening/night and don't be taking them off walking around barefoot holding them in your hand, that's trashy.

My two cents.

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u/Nameless_Nurse Nov 30 '22

I do not like them. Not sure why, but they scream high maintenance and I’m not attracted to women who wear them lol.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '22

Silly , illogical