r/AskMen Dec 01 '22

How long did your longest fwb or fb last?

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u/Darth_Brannigan Dec 01 '22

Anywhere from 3-6 months

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u/Dontneedflashbro Dec 01 '22

One lady was just at two years. Another one was on for three years on at one point of time. She moved to a different part of the state, but when she comes down we'll smash. Most of my fwb don't last that long though.

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u/simplyme773 Dec 01 '22

Damn. No feelings after 3 years? No boredom?

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u/Dontneedflashbro Dec 01 '22

If I don't want to date a woman for long term, I'll never gain feels no matter how many times we had sex. I didn't get bored because I had multiple fwb going on, she wasn't coming over ever week.

I don't really feel get closer to women though sex. It's the non sexual activities that draw me in, assuming I like her personality.

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u/gbizzle2 Dec 01 '22

Yea that's usually how it is for most men. It's the bonding time that makes "us" catch feelings.

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u/Dhydjtsrefhi Dec 01 '22

Over 2 years

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u/full_of_ghosts Male Dec 01 '22

Don't remember exactly. Probably around 4-6 months.

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u/Outrageous-Ice-7460 Dec 01 '22

Longest lasting F buddy was about 2 1/2 years then she started dating someone and I did shortly after. Pretty confident if we were single again we would start smashing again

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u/ToyDingo Dec 01 '22

Roughly a full year. It only ended because life just gets in the way and we didn't have time to hang out. Honestly I miss the friendship more than the benefits. :(

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u/simplyme773 Dec 01 '22

Mine catch feelings then leave

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u/AccordingJellyfish77 Dec 01 '22

The best ones burn out pretty quickly cuz if they're really attractive with a high sex drive it's just a matter of time before they get wifed up. But Iv had one that was pretty on going for a few years. I was interested in dating just not dating her and she wanted to be single. She was aware sometimes I would sleep with another girl and didn't care.

Being honest really does solve so many problems in any type of relationship.

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u/steel_monkey_nz Dec 01 '22

8 years. But it was a thing where we'd see each other once ever 6 months or even a couple years in between when I was away or she was away.

It ended when we started hanging out a lot and I had a lot more feels than she did. It never would have worked out, far too different people.

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u/naked_avenger Dec 01 '22

Couple of months, and then very occasionally once in a blue moon sort of stuff.

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u/asphyxia_k Dec 02 '22

It’s been 4 years 🤣 For real tho but they don’t live around here so yeah