This is a cliche that is absolutely true in my experience travelling in Asia and Latin America. American girls are great. American guys....jesus wept, what a shit show.
They are loud, and brash, laugh like animals, mostly at their own "jokes" have no sense of irony, are utter strangers to humility, and have this awful arrogance that blinds them to their own stupidity.
They "question everything" out of a false sense of superiority that only underlines this stupidity. There is such unfathomable arrogance, to have literally no knowledge of a sport or other cultural artefact and yet within 30 seconds convince themselves that they know better. And oh how they love to tell everyone about it!
Why are they like this? Serious answers only.
How do you all cope with 16 hours of cocomelon?
I'm going to sound like a fucking asshole and I'm aware.
I've been fucking a woman for a year. She has feelings and told me so months ago. She asked about a relationship and I said im not interested.
But we kept sleeping together. As time went on, I stalked her Twitter and found out her kinks so I'm using them in bed.
She gave me a bj and I finally came in her mouth for the first time.
I mistakenly sent her a dick pic on snap. I mean to send it to someone else I'm sleeping with. Of course she responded favorably. But I treated her like shit. I didn't respond. She texted later and I shut her down. Her name was down my list so I don't fucking know how I even grabbed it.
I don't know why I didn't just go with it. I sent her pics months ago so it wasn't that it was a first. But I was a dick because I was annoyed at her.
But I won't apologize.
How can I get her to say she wants to move on so I don't have to do the dirty work?
Or how can I change her feelings?
Mine was Alfredo Olive (1% of listeners) and top song was "Tus Lagrimas" by same artist.
How did this year fare for you compared to prior years?
I’m so confused man , so long story short , I met this girl at my job , and couple days later I slid in her dms and we started talking from there . This happened maybe 2 months ago and we been talking almost everyday for more than a month now. Since about this past Sunday when she got back from her home place and came back for college she all of sudden stops talking to me like she used to and this whole week has been weird. She used to text me back like immediately and then Sunday came she started taking hella minutes and hours and she doesn’t work so usually don’t really be doing anything. And since Mon we haven’t been texting, has this happened to y’all ?? If so wtffff man lol
Edit more context: In her past “relationships”, she told me all the guys she messed with all treated her like shit . I know 3 guys she used to talk all had multiple gfs while talking to her and was treating her like shit , so that’s why I probably haven’t been tooooo aggressive
Another edit : yes we did hang out a couple times in that past month or 2
Hey, fellows. I need some great help from you because I've been struggling with body odor after starting to work out. So for years, I was using a Nivea deo and it worked well until about 4 months ago when I finally started an active lifestyle. I started going to the gym 4-5 times a week and clean bulking. I got desirable results in my gym progress... however, that wasn't the case for my armpits. Somehow, whatever deo/antipers that I use, sweat would still get through and make me stink. I've tried Dove, Rexona, Axe, and currently Old Spice. Old Spice would hold up for a bit but the other 3 that I've tried were no help at all. My confidence has been taking a toll lately. Seriously, any and all help would be greatly appreciated, thanks all.
Talking with this chick for about 2 months and in person we’re great. A lot of flirting and laughing. But she’s inconsistent with the texting and it’s annoying me because of how consistent it is. If it was once in a while I wouldn’t care but this is happening almost daily now where she’s takes an unreasonable amount of time to answer, sometimes even the next day. I do keep in mind that she might just not be that into me which is why I want to address and find out so I’m not wasting time. Being that we’re only talking, should I wait a little longer to address it?
Why don’t men wear more eyeliner? Do you all realize how attractive that is on a guy? It isn’t gay. It’s amazing.
My Dear Askmen, Have you ever been in a dilemma between your mother and your husband about something bad? And how did you resolve it?
ETA I'm currently just over a year
Do you try to apear harmless? Is it annoying? Do you feel discriminated?
My friend is quite stressed by work and I’d really like to do something that’s nice without it being considered too much.
What would make your day if you were in a similar situation?
22 year old sales rep here, I make about 3k a month. Been looking at a couple cars, Mazda Touring or CX-5, Toyota Camry/RAV-4, Honda CRV/ Accord. My manager keeps telling me its my first car and i should "go all out" suggesting i take a loan for the latest Mercedes Benz. Sounds like terrible advice.
Currently in drivers ed with 5k saved up. i could probably ramp up about 8k for down payment.
I have never owned a car before and i have a couple questions.
- In this market should i buy Used or new?
- what brand or model of car screams value and reliable.
- Do i take a loan for a car i know i can pay off quick and help my credit score or buy outright.
P.S. i know my title sounds a bit too silly because its hard to get all three in a car but pls help me out, THANK YOU GUYS! I'm also scared of buying used because i really want my car to hit the road instantly.
And how are you dealing?
More tired? Less patience? Stay home more? Pay more attention to health?
Do you date more often? Not want to be bothered?
I want to do something special and not cringy to show him I’m sorry. I keep apologizing (I lied to him, the actual lie wasn’t as bad as the fact that I lied. As soon as I realized I lied I said it). He wants me to stop telling him how sorry I am and show him, like do a gesture for him. I’m planning on buying him shoes he’s been wanting, not sure what other great gestures say I’m sorry. I told him how I’m working on being better and time will show that.
What gestures have you received that showed you your SO was sorry and/or working on improving?